What’s Your Archetype? (Interactive Poll)

Kink isn’t one-size-fits-all. That’s the beauty of it — we all carry different energies, different fantasies, different roles we slip into when the lights go down (or when the lights come up 😉).

Some of us thrive in control. Others blossom when we surrender. Some live between worlds, flowing back and forth depending on the moment. Then there are the voyeurs who love to watch, and the exhibitionists who light up when they’re seen.

✨ The Poll: Which archetype do you identify with most?

• 🔥 Dominant Takes the lead in play, guiding, giving direction, or holding control. Power is their art.

• 🌙 Submissive Finds pleasure in surrender, following, or being guided. Power is their gift to give.

• 🌓 Switch Enjoys both sides — sometimes leading, sometimes surrendering — depending on mood, partner, or scene.

• 👁 Voyeur Loves to watch. Finds excitement in observing others explore pleasure, power, or intimacy.

• ✨ Exhibitionist Thrives on being seen. Finds energy and arousal in performing or being the center of attention.

This isn’t about labels that trap you — it’s about celebrating the many ways we play, explore, and express power.

Which Archetype do You Identify with Most?

• DOMINATE
• SUBMISSIVE
• SWITCH
• VOYER

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🖤 Question for you: Drop your vote below ⬇️ … and if you’re brave, share a story of the first time you realized which role lit a spark in you.

Answer:

I am Submissive x Exhibitionist, identifying as a little/brat, claimed by a daddy dom. I'll share my detailed story on the submissive end on my future blog post about dynamics and dynamic set ups.

The short end of my spark for submissive side is I'm a go getter in life, very dominate personality, hardheaded, tries to be too independent at times and I have a hard time asking for help. In that essence when I'm in the bedroom I just thoroughly enjoy being able to hand the reigns over to someone else for control and relinquish my state to someone else and still get the enjoyment and intimacy. it allows me to break down and fully relax with nothing in my head but the pleasure.

For my exhibitionist side of me I struggle with body dysmorphia really bad, and I was trying to find ways to see myself in a different light. That led me to trying a few different things; I made a FetLife account for meeting new ppl and self-made modeling, I did live cam shows for a little while and then I went to Fansly and Instagram for self-produced modeling. Yes, that means my Fansly career wasn't just a plot for money it was a resource for helping me heal something broken.

Through all of this the camera helped me see things I couldn't see by myself and that is why I love what I do. I do it all my way; on what and when I'm comfortable by my terms. It is still helping me navigate my body dysmorphia and has had gradual climb over time. and with that the Exhibitionist was born (I call her the succubus or "Vixie"). She is beautifully authentic and sports her flaws with pride and confidence and it took way too long to find her but I'm glad I did.

“In surrender I find freedom, in being seen I find healing — and in embracing both, I finally found myself.” 🔥🌙✨

-The Succubus Collective