Performer Safety is Non-Negotiable

The adult industry often sells the illusion of fantasy — but behind that fantasy are real people with real boundaries. And too often, those boundaries are ignored.

I’ve seen and felt the way performers are pressured:

• Say yes when you want to say no.

• Perform beyond your comfort to keep your “spot.”

• Be profitable first, human second.

That isn’t just unsafe. It’s dehumanizing.

The Succubus Collective exists because I refuse to accept that narrative. Here, safety isn’t an afterthought. It’s the foundation. Consent isn’t negotiable. It’s sacred. Creativity flourishes best when everyone involved feels respected, seen, and in control of their choices.

For me, the gothic and occult aesthetic mirrors this belief: rituals, symbols, and boundaries are powerful — they hold meaning. In the same way, our boundaries as performers are not obstacles. They are spells of protection, shaping safe spaces for authentic art.

If the industry won’t protect us, then we’ll create spaces that do. That’s what this Collective is about: not surviving, but thriving.

✨ What does safety mean to you — in sex, in kink, or in creativity? Let’s start that conversation.

 “Boundaries aren’t walls. They’re wings that let us rise without fear.”

-The Succubus Collective